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Resources & Recommendations

What I return to,
again and again

The teachers, books, providers, and practices I return to most often in this work — gathered here to support your journey between sessions and beyond.

New here? Start with one thing.

This page holds years of curated resources. Don't try to consume it all at once. These are the three entry points I most often suggest to people beginning this kind of work.

BooksCore texts Janet often recommends to clients.
VideosTalks that make complex healing ideas easier to understand.
PracticesSimple tools for grounding between sessions.
SupportProviders and resources for deeper care.
A note from Janet

Use these resources gently.

Some material can bring up strong emotions, especially around trauma and the body. Choose one resource at a time, pause when you need to, and bring anything important into session.

Before you begin, ask: what would feel supportive today rather than productive?
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If you want to understand trauma and the body

Begin with Bessel van der Kolk's talk on how trauma is held somatically — then pick up his book. It will reframe how you understand your own nervous system, your history, and your capacity to heal.

Watch → YouTube
02

If you want to understand your nervous system

Irene Lyon's free video series on nervous system regulation is some of the most practical and accessible material available. Her work is a genuine gift — no cost, no commitment.

Watch → YouTube
03

If you want to begin a daily practice

Start with 20 minutes of Yoga Nidra, three times a week. Most people notice something shifting within the first two weeks. It asks very little, and offers a great deal.

Listen → Playlists

Talks I often recommend to clients

Leading researchers, clinicians, and teachers in trauma, somatics, neuroscience, and integrative healing — the voices that have most shaped this practice.

Practitioners I trust

A small, carefully considered list of providers in and around Southport — colleagues whose work I know, respect, and refer to when a client's needs extend beyond my own scope.

Dr. Sarah Hendricks
Dr. Sarah Hendricks
Psychiatrist · MD Southport & Greenwich, CT

A thoughtful, integrative psychiatrist with a particular sensitivity to trauma. Sarah approaches medication from a minimal-intervention perspective and works well alongside ongoing talk therapy and somatic work.

Marcus Webb
Marcus Webb
Somatic Bodyworker · LMT Southport, CT

A somatic bodyworker trained in myofascial release and craniosacral therapy. Marcus works with held tension in the body in ways that complement EMDR and somatic psychotherapy exceptionally well.

Dr. Lisa Chen
Dr. Lisa Chen
Acupuncturist · DOM Fairfield, CT

Lisa's work with the meridian system is precise, gentle, and deeply attuned to emotional as well as physical presentation. A wonderful complement for clients working with anxiety and nervous system dysregulation.

Rachel Osman
Rachel Osman
Nutritional Psychiatrist · MS, RD Remote · Telehealth

A registered dietitian specialising in the gut–brain connection. Rachel helps clients understand how food, the microbiome, and inflammation intersect with mood, cognition, and resilience.

Priya Nair
Priya Nair
Kundalini Yoga Teacher · RYT 500 Southport, CT

Priya teaches Kundalini yoga with an emphasis on the nervous system and emotional processing. Her classes are grounding, accessible, and often a meaningful complement to our work in session.

What I recommend

Not prescriptions — thoughtful additions that many clients find supportive alongside therapy and lifestyle work. Always consult your physician before adding anything new.

Things worth having

Books that belong on every healing shelf, and a few physical tools that support a grounded, embodied practice at home.

The Body Keeps the Score
Book

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.

The most important book written on trauma in the last three decades. Required reading for understanding what trauma is, how it lives in the body, and what genuinely supports recovery.

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In an Unspoken Voice
Book

In an Unspoken Voice

Peter A. Levine, Ph.D

Peter Levine's definitive text on Somatic Experiencing — how the body heals trauma, and why working with the nervous system is essential to lasting recovery.

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When the Body Says No
Book

When the Body Says No

Gabor Maté, M.D.

A compassionate exploration of how unexpressed emotion and unmet needs manifest as illness — and what a more honest relationship with ourselves makes possible.

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The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy
Book

The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy

Deb Dana, LCSW

An accessible, clinically-grounded guide to applying Polyvagal Theory — particularly valuable for understanding the neuroscience of safety and co-regulation.

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Practice Tool

Zafu Meditation Cushion

Brentwood Home · Organic Cotton

A quality cushion makes a genuine difference to sitting practice. The right height takes strain off the hips and lower back, allowing the mind to settle more quickly.

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Practice Tool

Jade Harmony Yoga Mat

Jade Yoga · Natural Rubber

The mat I recommend without reservation. Natural rubber, excellent grip, substantial enough to feel grounded — and made with environmental responsibility.

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Some links are Amazon affiliate links. If you purchase through them, Janet earns a small commission at no extra cost to you. She only recommends things she genuinely uses or believes in.

Music for the work

Carefully composed playlists for different moments in the healing journey — from morning grounding to deep practice to evening restoration.

"Healing is not a destination you arrive at. It is the quality of attention you learn to bring — to yourself, again and again."
— Janet Aspen, Ph.D